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Integrating the value of Self-Forgiveness

Life area:  Celebration

Making mistakes is part of learning and growing. If we haven’t forgiven ourselves we will continue creating an identity around our pain, and this becomes our constant companion and self image.  It is how others know us in our relationships, “the one who is suffering.” Renee Lindstrom

 

Notice your suffering this week, name the feeling and identify what value that wasn’t met. 

Giving

A value-based empathetic language of compassion is one this is focused upon giving and grounded in mutually receiving back.  Giving is a spontaneous and natural response in communicating when a language structure is used that allows us to connect with ourselves and with others.

VIRTUAL – LONGING TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF IN RELATIONSHIPS

Sundays, January 13 – March 17,  2013 ~ 10:30 am to noon

Join Renee for a 10 Week Virtual Series designed as a  personal challenge for exploring how to become a better version of yourself in relationships.  Move beyond the pain and loneliness of disconnection.  Enjoy extraordinary connections and learn skills to stop experiencing guilt, resentment, obligation or trying to prove yourself.

COURSE OUTLINE:

Part one ~ Getting Started:
  • Welcome and Introductions
  • Relationships  – Types of Connecting
  • Types of Perception (Past, Present, Future)
  • Feelings and Emotional  Literacy
  • Taking responsibility for feelings
  • Culture of Needs

Part two

  • Enriching life and your relationships
  • Expressing honestly
  • Listening with Empathy
  • Self – Empathy
  • Empathy for Others

Part three

  • Empathy, Relationships and Behaviour
  • Staying connected in Conflict
  • Putting it together
  • Moving forward
  • Appreciation & Celebration
Includes course outline and reminders emailed in advance of course dates, practice suggestions for  in between classes and an on-line forum for discussion among participants and putting in questions for upcoming week.

10 Week Series – $200.00

REGISTRATION HERE 

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Choice

A strong human value/need is to have choice and the power to make a decision between two or more possibilities.  A value-based empathetic language of compassion is one that acknowledges choice in dialogue.  It translates the mundane “have to” consciousness into one of recognition that this too is a choice and translates it into using different phrases that create open-ended choices.

The value of choice is one of human’s greatest needs

Life Area:  Autonomy

It is this need that could be the source of all moralistic judgments and passive and aggressive violence.  If there is no choice, the options are to fight or give in.  Imagine a moment what feelings arise for you when you consider not having a choice.  Do you sense a fight, flight or fright moment? Learning self-empathy steps and those for empathetic listening of others will shift those in the conversation into an experience of choice.

Practice your empathy skills this week. 

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Coming this week! Stay tuned on how you can benefit!

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