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14 Tips to finding better love #13

Day 13: Positive personalities most attractive

There are concrete studies that show people with positive personalities are seen as more attractive and are more physically appealing than those who are rude, negative and unfair. Is you glass half-full or half empty?

Love Day 13Today’s Tip:  Explore your own inner messaging patterns.  Do you beat yourself and others up? Imagine how attractive this is to others and commit to change through creative self-development!   Begin your practice now!

“Supply is infinite, but there must be receptivity.  We can have all the supply we will give.  But that is where the barrier is–the unwillingness to give.  That is where the lack or limitation is.”
Joel Goldsmith


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14 Days to finding better love – #12

#12 ‘Easy Fun &  Adventure’

Trying too hard by interviewing your date for your next serious relationship? Are you being interviewed for the next great lay? STOP! This can be the time to share experiences and find out what you have in common. Ease pressure by keeping it fun and turning meetings into great adventures.

Love Day 12Tip of the Day:  Hang out first. No pressure. Just enjoy each others company. Everyone could use new friendships. This can be a time that is the honeymoon of friendships.

“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.”

Erich Segal

 


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Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better love #11

#11 – The Connection

Your intuition will tell you immediately if you are in company with someone who is compatible if you are listening to it!  It’s all in the open gestures, comfortable friendliness levels, pitch of voice and eye contact.  One way of noticing compatibility is the language connection.  It’s not about what you say, it’s how you say it that might give you answers to the longevity of this relationship.

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Love Day 11Tip of the day:  Within 10 minutes you will know if it will be rewarding to put time and energy into pursing a relationship.  Notice it their eyes remain in contact with yours.  This indicates they are into you.  Notice if the words they use are the same or similar ones to yours.  For example:  Do you both use, Great as an expression or a statement such as, I am interested in…..  Pay attention to words they use that disturb you.  This will never change it will only become more annoying!

“We are most alive when we’re in love.”  John Updike


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Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better love! #10 Real-Time Face-time

#10 Real-Time Face-time

Filling your date nights and getting out yet? In real-time you can experience how your date influences you and if they are interesting. On-line, not so much! On-line you may be distracted from your loneliness yet it doesn’t do much for the flirty side of romance. On-line profiles are misleading and untrustworthy that lead straight to the end-game. If you lack time to get out to meet and greet until something clicks and are seriously looking get a match maker or go to specific singles events!

Love Day 10Today’s tip:    Use 80/20 Rule

Spend 80 to 100 percent engaging in real-time face-time and 20 to 0 percent on-line.  If you are looking for love, romance and nuances that make relationships sparkle on-line simply isn’t reflective of this experience.  However if your lonely, lazy,  love anxiety  and sometimes deceit, it may meet your needs!

“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.”
The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen


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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 tips to finding better love! #9

#9  Listen to your intuition

Meet new prospects in public in an easy, fun and lighthearted location. (Don’t stay on-line – take it public) Listen to your ‘first impression.’ What is your gut telling you? Can you be authentic and stay integral to what matters to you? Are you comfortable? Are they comfortable? Can you be yourself? Your goal is to find out if they are looking for a successful relationship or the novelty of attraction. A successful relationship is life enriching and the novelty of attraction becomes life draining and can become a fatal attraction.

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Love Day 9Tip of the Day:  

Be objective.  Notice the warning signs and if you stay centered or if your trying too hard and giving too much.  Go beyond the physical attraction.   If conversation is a struggle now it will always be a struggle.  Notice the rewards in connecting.  Yes conversation is rewarding.

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
                                                 Vincent Van Gogh

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better love! #8

Loves big vision is to cherish and be cherished which means to show and receive respect, kindness, acceptance, appreciation and more. It’s all about the dating, not the sex. Dating is the excitement and the romance. It is also the time to find compatibilities. The time to explore the jewel of connection that becomes the bond that keeps the focus of attention of you and creates a love bond that leads to joy in sex. Until you have this you are one of many.

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Love Day 8Tip of the day:  Organize yourself to meet a handful of potential dates.  Keep it light and easy.  Enjoy meeting and connecting to find out more about yourself and them.  Meeting someone is not a commitment to date.  Meeting someone is not a commitment for sex.  Stand out!  Give them an experience where they want to find out more!

“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”
 Anaïs Nin


LOVE PROGRAM STARTING FEB 1ST – 14 DAYS OF LOVE TIPS – FOLLOW@INSIDEAWARENESS


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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Days to finding better love! #7

#7  Intimacy & Vulnerability

Vulnerability comes from trust.  Trust grows from friendship.  Are you seeking gratification or longing for bliss?  if you choose bliss, practice friendship.  Enjoy making friends and the joys of bliss from exploring your shared values and sharing experiences.

Love Day 7Tip for the day:  Be committed to getting to know many friends.  Use this time to practice fun and enjoy the getting to know you process before getting serious.

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”

James Baldwin

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LOVE PROGRAM STARTING FEB 1ST – 14 DAYS OF LOVE TIPS – FOLLOW @INSIDEAWARENESS


Removing obstacles to Love Workshop

Read Richard Watts, Feature Writer for the Times Colonist  interview and article on love  and relationships!

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015