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Happy Love Day! #14th Tip to finding better love

Posted on February 14, 2015 | Leave a comment

#14 – ‘Signs of Attraction’

Mutual eye contact is a sure sign of attraction. Brief glances catching each other’s eyes without turning away that may lead to other body signals. First stage of passion in relationships that will lead to second and third stages; emotional intimacy and commitment. If this is the partner of your dreams, enjoy this first stage of romance and growing excitement of passion. Take your time and enjoy the foreplay without rushing it. It is the easiest and greatest stage of any relationship and creates mystery and intimacy. Too soon and it’s lost!

Love Day 14 Tip of the Day: Take your time noticing each other reactions and flirt-i-ness. If you are attracted you will make gestures that you find mirrored by them. Love this stage as this is the time of heightened dreams and hopefulness. Don’t rush past this stage and extinguished it too soon.

“A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.”
Ingrid Bergman

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14 Days to finding better love – #12

Posted on February 12, 2015 | Leave a comment

#12 ‘Easy Fun & Adventure’

Trying too hard by interviewing your date for your next serious relationship? Are you being interviewed for the next great lay? STOP! This can be the time to share experiences and find out what you have in common. Ease pressure by keeping it fun and turning meetings into great adventures.

Tip of the Day: Hang out first. No pressure. Just enjoy each others company. Everyone could use new friendships. This can be a time that is the honeymoon of friendships.

“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.”

Erich Segal

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14 Tips to finding better love #11

Posted on February 11, 2015 | 1 comment

#11 – The Connection

Your intuition will tell you immediately if you are in company with someone who is compatible if you are listening to it! It’s all in the open gestures, comfortable friendliness levels, pitch of voice and eye contact. One way of noticing compatibility is the language connection. It’s not about what you say, it’s how you say it that might give you answers to the longevity of this relationship.

Tip of the day: Within 10 minutes you will know if it will be rewarding to put time and energy into pursing a relationship. Notice it their eyes remain in contact with yours. This indicates they are into you. Notice if the words they use are the same or similar ones to yours. For example: Do you both use, Great as an expression or a statement such as, I am interested in….. Pay attention to words they use that disturb you. This will never change it will only become more annoying!

“We are most alive when we’re in love.” John Updike

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14 Tips to finding better love! #10 Real-Time Face-time

Posted on February 10, 2015 | 1 comment

#10 Real-Time Face-time

Filling your date nights and getting out yet? In real-time you can experience how your date influences you and if they are interesting. On-line, not so much! On-line you may be distracted from your loneliness yet it doesn’t do much for the flirty side of romance. On-line profiles are misleading and untrustworthy that lead straight to the end-game. If you lack time to get out to meet and greet until something clicks and are seriously looking get a match maker or go to specific singles events!

Today’s tip: Use 80/20 Rule

Spend 80 to 100 percent engaging in real-time face-time and 20 to 0 percent on-line. If you are looking for love, romance and nuances that make relationships sparkle on-line simply isn’t reflective of this experience. However if your lonely, lazy, love anxiety and sometimes deceit, it may meet your needs!

“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.”
The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen

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14 tips to finding better love! #9

Posted on February 9, 2015 | Leave a comment

#9 Listen to your intuition

Meet new prospects in public in an easy, fun and lighthearted location. (Don’t stay on-line – take it public) Listen to your ‘first impression.’ What is your gut telling you? Can you be authentic and stay integral to what matters to you? Are you comfortable? Are they comfortable? Can you be yourself? Your goal is to find out if they are looking for a successful relationship or the novelty of attraction. A successful relationship is life enriching and the novelty of attraction becomes life draining and can become a fatal attraction.

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Be objective. Notice the warning signs and if you stay centered or if your trying too hard and giving too much. Go beyond the physical attraction. If conversation is a struggle now it will always be a struggle. Notice the rewards in connecting. Yes conversation is rewarding.

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
Vincent Van Gogh

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14 Tips to finding better love! #8

Posted on February 8, 2015 | Leave a comment

Loves big vision is to cherish and be cherished which means to show and receive respect, kindness, acceptance, appreciation and more. It’s all about the dating, not the sex. Dating is the excitement and the romance. It is also the time to find compatibilities. The time to explore the jewel of connection that becomes the bond that keeps the focus of attention of you and creates a love bond that leads to joy in sex. Until you have this you are one of many.

Love Day 8 Tip of the day: Organize yourself to meet a handful of potential dates. Keep it light and easy. Enjoy meeting and connecting to find out more about yourself and them. Meeting someone is not a commitment to date. Meeting someone is not a commitment for sex. Stand out! Give them an experience where they want to find out more!

“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”
Anaïs Nin

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14 Tips to finding better love! #5

Posted on February 5, 2015 | 1 comment

#5 Relationships are on the physical plain

Relationships are the manifestation of your hopes, dreams and intentions. The conscious or unconscious seeds sown will result in capturing a love connection. However, it is balance of your whole self that will determine the state of your experience in your relationships.

Love Day 5 Tip of the day: A relationship is in real-time. Once love is found it only lasts if the interactions and shared experiences are compatible.