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14 tips to finding better love! #9

#9  Listen to your intuition

Meet new prospects in public in an easy, fun and lighthearted location. (Don’t stay on-line – take it public) Listen to your ‘first impression.’ What is your gut telling you? Can you be authentic and stay integral to what matters to you? Are you comfortable? Are they comfortable? Can you be yourself? Your goal is to find out if they are looking for a successful relationship or the novelty of attraction. A successful relationship is life enriching and the novelty of attraction becomes life draining and can become a fatal attraction.

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Love Day 9Tip of the Day:  

Be objective.  Notice the warning signs and if you stay centered or if your trying too hard and giving too much.  Go beyond the physical attraction.   If conversation is a struggle now it will always be a struggle.  Notice the rewards in connecting.  Yes conversation is rewarding.

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
                                                 Vincent Van Gogh

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Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better love! #8

Loves big vision is to cherish and be cherished which means to show and receive respect, kindness, acceptance, appreciation and more. It’s all about the dating, not the sex. Dating is the excitement and the romance. It is also the time to find compatibilities. The time to explore the jewel of connection that becomes the bond that keeps the focus of attention of you and creates a love bond that leads to joy in sex. Until you have this you are one of many.

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Love Day 8Tip of the day:  Organize yourself to meet a handful of potential dates.  Keep it light and easy.  Enjoy meeting and connecting to find out more about yourself and them.  Meeting someone is not a commitment to date.  Meeting someone is not a commitment for sex.  Stand out!  Give them an experience where they want to find out more!

“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”
 Anaïs Nin


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Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Days to finding better love! #7

#7  Intimacy & Vulnerability

Vulnerability comes from trust.  Trust grows from friendship.  Are you seeking gratification or longing for bliss?  if you choose bliss, practice friendship.  Enjoy making friends and the joys of bliss from exploring your shared values and sharing experiences.

Love Day 7Tip for the day:  Be committed to getting to know many friends.  Use this time to practice fun and enjoy the getting to know you process before getting serious.

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”

James Baldwin

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better love! #6

#6  How you love is how you are loved

If you love through sex, you will be loved only for sex.  If you love for money, you will only be loved forever how long you have value to the financier.  If you love to be taken care of, you are loved until the novelty of loving you wears off!  However, if your clear on your needs in a relationship and your love is expansive, you will receive back deeper ever lasting love.

Love Day 6Tip of the Day:

Write down 5 things that you love and are loved in return for.  For example:  You are caring, therefore cared for.

 “Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves uch performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in loveis done well.”    Vincent Van Gogh


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Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better love! #5

#5  Relationships are on the physical plain

Relationships are the manifestation of your hopes, dreams and intentions.  The conscious or unconscious seeds sown will result in capturing a love connection. However, it is balance of your whole self that will determine the state of your experience in your relationships.

Love Day 5Tip of the day:  A relationship is in real-time. Once love is found it only lasts  if the interactions and shared experiences are compatible.

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love you”rself to get anything done in this world.”   

Lucille Ball

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to finding better Love #4

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness, Living in Natures Love Blog & Renee Lindstrom Live

#4  Love is a full-time job!

Finding a loving relationship is a full-time occupation.  A love mate is our most important objective.  It is a goal we enter life with.  The love experience of our parents shape us.  It’s where we learn love either fills us with hope or hopelessness.  It is on our minds and what motivates us!

Love Day 4Tip of the day:  Be honest with yourself and admit that you are looking for love.  Let you family, friends and co-workers know.  If you are looking for a mate tackle it in the same way you would look for a new job.  If you are looking to improve your love experience, tackle it in the same way that you pursued important milestones!

“The art of love is largely the art of persistence.” 

Albert Ellis

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Removing obstacles to Love Workshop

Read Richard Watts, Feature Writer for the Times Colonist  interview and article on love  and relationships!

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

14 Tips to better Love #3

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness, Living in Natures Love Blog & Renee Lindstrom Live

#3  Romance? Play? Adventure? Affection? Intimacy?

It’s all about the love! Start pursing love creativity. Find out what you love by considering objects, art, nature & materials to represent the essence of the value-needs you discovered on Tip #1. the aim is to represent your inner longing artfully in your personal space creating intention and connection to loves beauty.

Love Day threeTip for today:  Begin with creating a space to represent the qualities of love that you are looking for in a new or old relationship.  In a space that is completely yours begin creating an altar for romance and love.  If you are looking for romance what objects mean this to you?  Candles? Roses?  Remember when you put object like candles or roses out that you do in pairs.  ‘See some photo examples.’

“We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


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Day #4 – Tip 4


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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication Relationship & Life Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015