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Out of balance emotions & behaviours of Leo sign

Leo the fire sign

Leo is ruled by the Sun and this fire sign influences action.  In balance it reflects qualities of love, expression, creativity, fun, playfulness.

The needs of this sign are love, self love,  attention and loving family, and  community.

How behaviours of out of balance Leo may manifest

Fear:  Being unlovable, lack of being trusted

Fear Response:  Seeking Attention

Common Leo out of balance emotional statements:

  • “You don’t trust me.”
  • “I don’t trust you.”
  • “You don’t pay enough attention to me.”
  • “You don’t want my attention.”

Sharing ways to consciously align with this sign in earlier posts focused upon daily goal settingfoods to support emotional balance and physical movement to support the areas governed by Leo.

Now focus is on ways to process Leo’s reactions when out of balance.

The predominate perceptual sense of this sign is “seeing (vision).”

The need is expression and fame.

3 additional ways to balance Leo emotions  

#1.  Empathy – Awareness through Listening

  • “I don’t trust you,” can start with deeper reflection first before making any statements.  The feelings could be of jealousy, feelings of hurt or fear and the obvious need is for trust.  
More on empathy – Self-empathizing, Empathize with others

#2.  Language of connection – Awareness through Communication

  • Turn separation into moments of connection:

“I am disappointed when I  hear you say,  Mom, I went to a party last night after I promised to go to a friends to study.  Ken, I have a need for trust. ”  

 More on learning to speak with intention

#3.  Balance and calm Leo’s environment

Awareness of Space

Leo needs a castle to entertain and with the dominate sense being vision it is important to have a clutter free, clean environment.  Leo would like large beautiful and artful homes, offices and furniture that make a statement.

More on Creating a space using intention

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by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness,  Living in Natures Love Blog
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Six ways to balance emotions & reactive behaviours of Scorpio

Transformation of Scorpio

Scorpio  longs for intimacy, depth, sexual fulfillment, deep connections and a tribe.    Traits of this cardinal planet are self-control, personal empowerment, will power and transformation.

The needs of this sign are for honesty, acceptance, space, privacy and autonomy.

How behaviours of out of balance Scorpio may manifest

3rd Chakra oob emotions

Fear:  Rejection

Fear Response:  Bondage, Addiction

Common Scorpio  out of balance emotional statements:

  • They will be sorry!”
  • “(He/She will regret this!”
  • “Their history!”
  • “I can stop anytime.”

In earlier posts three ways of supporting this sign focused upon daily goal setting, foods to support emotional balance and physical movement.

3 additional ways to balance Scorpio emotions  

#1.  Empathy – Awareness through Listening

  • Self empathy and empathy for others can be as easy as learning to listen effectively (replacing habitual reactive responses)
  • Begin empathy feedback for Scorpio’s  with, “You feel……”

EFFECTIVE LISTENING

#2.  Language of connection – Awareness through Communication

  • Can be as easy as learning to turn separation into moments of connection (stop,right/wrong, blame, shame and critical statements)

COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

#3.  Balance and calm Scorpio’s  environment – Awareness of Space

  • Scorpio’s is a sign of intensity which translates into their desired spaces.  Deep colours, artistic layouts  and a clear flow of energy.  Scorpios will thrive using the arts of Feng Shui.

EFFECTIVE ENVIRONMENT


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by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness,  Living in Natures Love Blog
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Six ways to balance emotions & reactive behaviours of Libra

Libra Balance

Libra longs for love and beautiful relationships and as an air element it heralds in the wings of change.  Traits of this cardinal planet are action, self-motivated, insightful and ambitious therefore change can reflect balance.

The needs of this sign are for acceptance, beauty, love, and a partner.

How behaviours of out of balance Libra may manifest

Fear:  Ugliness

Fear Response:  People Pleasing

Common Libra out of balance emotional statements:

  • “What do you think I should do?”
  • “What will people think if I …….?”
  • “You’re not being fair!”
  • “I wouldn’t treat you that way.”
  • “I look (fat, ugly, awful….)!”

In earlier posts three ways of supporting this sign focused upon daily goal setting, foods to support emotional balance and physical movement.

3 additional ways to balance Libra emotions  

#1.  Empathy – Awareness through Listening

  • Self empathy and empathy for others can be as easy as learning to listen effectively (replacing habitual reactive responses)
  • Begin empathy feedback for Libra’s  with, “You think……”

EFFECTIVE LISTENING

#2.  Language of connection – Awareness through Communication

  • Can be as easy as learning to turn separation into moments of connection (stop,right/wrong, blame, shame and critical statements)

COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

#3.  Balance and calm Libra’s environment – Awareness of Space

  • Libra’s  thrive in clean, ordered, stress-free and peaceful environments.

EFFECTIVE ENVIRONMENT


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by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness,  Living in Natures Love Blog
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Six ways to balance emotions & reactive behaviours of Virgo

Virgo a mutable earth sign

Virgo is the sign of a healer that influences health and wholeness.  It is a mutable earth sign meaning that Virgo can adapt to different environments.  In balance it reflects acts of kindness and words of support

The needs of this sign are health, meaning, equality, independence, space, organization, clarity. and contribution.  Virgo’s have a deep sense of humanity.

Virgo’s are predominately analytical.

How behaviours of out of balance Virgo may manifest

Fear:  Criticism/Illness

Fear Response:  Attacking  Others

Common Virgo out of balance emotional statements:

  • “You don’t measure up.”
  • “You’re so critical.”
  • “This isn’t good enough.”

In earlier posts three ways of supporting this sign focused upon daily goal setting, foods to support emotional balance and physical movement.

3 additional ways to balance Virgo emotions  

#1.  Empathy – Awareness through Listening

  • Self empathy and empathy for others can be as easy as learning to listen effectively (replacing habitual reactive responses)
  • Begin empathy feedback for Virgo’s  with, “You think……”

EFFECTIVE LISTENING

#2.  Language of connection – Awareness through Communication

  • Can be as easy as learning to turn separation into moments of connection (stopping right/wrong, blame, shame and critical statements)

COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

#3.  Balance and calm Virgo’s environment – Awareness of Space

  • Virgo’s thrive in clean, ordered, stress-free and peaceful environments.

EFFECTIVE ENVIRONMENT


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by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness,  Living in Natures Love Blog
 & Renee Lindstrom Live