Entering the Century of Dialogue

Universal Intention - accepting the challenges of today and taking action

Universal Intention – accepting the challenges of today and taking action

A historic event was unfolding over Peace Weekend, Sept 20 & 21 ’14. The Dali Lama gathered the 9 religion’s of India together to discuss secular ethics and the environment of the world!

The Dali Lama declared the this Century the Century of Peace and how to achieve it – a Century of Dialogue!

Renee of Inside  was inspired to create this image as she listened to the plenary sessions of this historic gathering. The leaders of the nine religions in India gathering together for a dialogue. What Renee heard from these leaders was in tune with her philosophy and life’s passion. Peace will only come through mindful dialogue. The three things she enjoyed hearing from these sessions was: 1. We are all the same. there is no difference between us. 2. We all need two things, grain and clean water. 3. If the water is polluted??????, If there is no grain??????

Inside perspective of  why does a century of peace depend upon a century of dialogue?  

Peace comes from learning how to build a friendship based upon trust. Good friends are ones that have experienced you as trustworthy.  Bad friends are ones who have learned not to not trust you through experience. What determines trustworthy behavior?  Ethical behavior based upon shared values.

Values are universal and shared by all people.  We are  all the same and  we share the  same qualities of  human function.  These qualities are the four aspects of self;  mental, emotional, physical  and belief.  We all have the same needs for relationships,  survival and happiness and are entitled to achieve happiness in our life.  We are all entitled to relationships built upon respect and equality.

How can we create a culture of ethical behavior?  Through education, practice and commitment.  It begins with accepting the challenge and taking action.  It is only through personal change that one can be the change they want to see in the world.

A great starting point is learning a vocabulary of values.   Inside value programs are designed to start where you are and available for personal development, for the office, organization and education institution.  They are available for both adults and children.

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 Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Labyrinths of Victoria since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Grassroots Calendar Founder, Vice-Chair of World Children’s Summit on Peace & Nature in 2015

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Interested in Becoming Friends First?

Sunday’s starting Oct 5th 1 – 2:30 pm 
 
  • Love Talk Meet Up’s 
Becoming Friends

Becoming Friends

 
Serious about love and looking in all the wrong places?  Are you tired of signing up to sites only to be played and enable hook ups.  Hook ups  with no real intent or integrity?  If you would like to connect with others and become friends first, join our Sunday afternoon meet-ups.  A gathering for men and women to feel comfortable connecting
in a safe and fun environment leading to a heart connected conversations.  Our gatherings will include focused group sharing encouraging an environment for safely sharing and deepening friendship as well as a social aspect.
Some events may include labyrinth walks to encourage self (inner) connection first before sharing.
Connect:  renee@insideawareness to express your interest or make inquiries
By drop in:  $10.00
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 Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000

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Announcing sister site focused upon creating a Culture of Values

Launching:

Culture of Value & Kids Peace Bus Value Based Calendar Education Systems this September!

peace bus for a greener planet

Kids Peace bus Calendar of Values is a structure of learning patterns that breaks through complex critical thinking due to its simplicity of experiencing.  These patterns model ethical and humane behavior that layered with learning empathetic listening  and speaking, children can learn to communicate using a language that values others and is inclusive.  The Kids Peace Bus Calendar of Values is the foundation that can make later development of complex social learning systems easier and less time-consuming.

The Kids Peace Bus Calendar of Values program is a value-based educational component that is also a structure of implementation that is easy.  It is a program that makes learning fun,  and can grow into an organic system for creating *green behavior!   

Integration programs include:  

  • yearly calendar of values to follow for easy integration,
  • setting goals for creating a community and social culture for learning support
  • Teacher’s agendas and personal workbooks for simple integration and value definition development
  • vocabulary building
  • discussion topics for listening and dialogue skill building (designed for organic honesty & empathy)
  • community building ideas  

 

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September ’14 Courses from Inside:

Sept '14 class scheduleread more for detailed info and/or to see more events for the fall


 Renee Lindstrom
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000, Vice-Chair of World Children’s Summit on Peace & Nature – May 2015

 

FAQ:

What are some qualities that  clients would experience in your private sessions that they would remember?

Four qualities that come to mind are:  support, fairness,  patience and empathy.  Whether a movement, empathy or personal coaching  the sessions are grounded upon empathetic listening  and honest expression, (even if hard to hear messages).  Focus is upon the clients, not the practitioner, therefore a direct opportunity for the client can be for a deeper self connection.  In sessions the clients are guided through their experience replacing the teaching model (being talked at)  that culturally we have come to rely upon.  Being told, fixed or having the person we are paying teach us through their experience is so unsatisfactory.  It is the qualities of willingness and courage  that inspire change.  An atmosphere encouraging safe reflection achieves quicker and easier transitions with the least amount of effort!

In Relationships:

Whether sessions include both parties or not, space is held to consider the cause and effect for both sides.  This can deepen conscious understanding of  the root causes of the current experiences.  This process is based upon  empathy to transition out of  right or wrong judgments  for clarity and to regain composure, balance and free will for making difficult choices.  Life changing choices resulting from reaction can create bigger issues, resentment and regret.     Therefore these session need honesty, patience  and empathy to support a smoother transition forward.

In Movement

Once again this process focuses on empathetic listening except now it is focused upon what the body is demonstrating.  Unknown to most in our culture is that our bodies tell our story!  Through observation and felt touch in a safe environment the physical, mental,  emotional and belief aspects of oneself can open to patterns that are no longer working.  It is the awareness of old habits and this new experience that shifts outcomes.  These sessions need honesty, patience and empathy to support clients inner felt sense needs for safety to be met to let go of resistance to go beyond into a new experience in how they feel themselves.

Lifestyle

Clients who are either motivated for change or with chronic conditions will have home or office visits to increase support for life change through their environment.  Like ones body posture the home or office tells a story of one’s experience, yet not one of a personal self-image story.  This is a story of where ones attention is focused in life and how the relationships are  in community that shares the space.  These visits need honesty, patience and empathy to support each member in the process in a way that change can happen.

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Upcoming Classes & Events – Listed by date


 

Renee Lindstrom
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000, Vice-Chair of World Children’s Summit on Peace & Nature – May 2015

 

#yyj Peace Week Project

Celebrating Peace Week?

We urge you to share  a Peace focused event in your community group during the week leading up to September 21st,  ‘World Peace Day’

Why?

TO PLANT SEEDS OF PEACE ,

IT BEGINS WITHIN US IN COMMUNITY 

If you are planning an event in Greater Victoria during the week of September 14 – 21st, connect to have it added to our Peace Week Project Calendar! 

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Finding Love, Being in Love & Remembering your love………

Love Questions:

  • Does love just happen? (No, sex just happens!)
  • Does that loving feeling last forever? (No, when the physical chemical wears off the relationships becomes a struggle.)
  • Do you fall out of love with yourself  when you love someone else? (When you let anything go without addressing it, yes you are no longer loving yourself)
  • Who do you fall out of love with first, yourself or your mate? 
Heart  Shaped Ceremonial Pathway

Heart Shaped Ceremonial Pathway

  LOVE RELATED WORKSHOPS

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  A new way of looking at finding, being and staying in love!

New type of SUPPORT FOR FINDING, BEING AND REMEMBERING LOVE………….

Love is fresh, never old! 

First lets look at what makes love old when:  

  • looking for it,
  • being in it
  • or trying to remember it?  

If your answer was unmet needs your right!

Surprisingly our first step for finding love is hunting for it.  It’s easy to hunt and be hunted.  We are longing to feel connected, loved and chemically high!

Typically our second step is to conform ourselves to fit the model we think we should be.

Or, we demand our love interest conform to be who we want them to be!

Putting them or ourselves first turns today’s dream into tomorrow’s nightmare! 

Screech……..STOP! 

 Let’s start over!  Together lets take a look at your definition of love and find out if it is working for you, but first lets talk about why.  Whether you are looking for a short-term fix or long-term relationship wouldn’t you want to experience the best of you versus the worst?  To feel confident, beautiful and fulfilled replacing hurt, resentful and frustrated would be the ultimate experience in love’s connection.  How can you achieve this?  By making love in your life your priority.  Considering it, defining it and preparing for it.  The definition you have for love is different than anyone else on the planet.  Yes, even your lover!

  • If you know your love map you will choose better lovers.
  • If you know your love map your lover has a better chance of being in connection and not having to be right or wrong!  
  •  If you are in a right and wrong relationship and have forgotten the ‘er’ at the end of love stopping to define your love map will refresh your memory.

  Love is a philosophy.  Love is life.  Love is a career.

Love is the field when the head, heart and body is in sync.  

Are you focusing as much of your attention to your love as your own career? If not, why not? 

Connect to find out how you too can deepen your connection to find, be and stay in love.  Personal programs include creating your love map, defining love in your life, creating the space for love, attracting love to you and how to talk ‘love’.  

 Connect and ask about: 

  • Creating a love map (yes works for singles & couples)
  • Home assessment
  • Movements, mental & emotional aspects for releasing blocks to love
  • Love Conversations
  • Getting Married
  • Ceremonies
(in person, by telephone & by conference call)

  Love related workshops

Wedding Labyrinth

Wedding Labyrinth

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 Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000
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