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The meaning of environment!  What began as an understanding that the environment was far from our center has transitioned to understanding the influence of our environment to have a much closer relationship.  It is much closer inward than the planet, the earth, the sun, sky, air, etc. It is much closer than our property, home and individuals rooms in our house.  It is also includes the clothes we wear, the jewelry we put on and the make up we apply. It is also includes our posture.  It is our pattern of how we hold our bodies upright.  (How we hold our bodies upright creates an environment that we are stimulated by and react to!)    It is the food that we eat!  (The food we consume creates an environment that we react to and are stimulated by!)


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Improve your physical movement, build your self-esteem in relationships, treat yourself to empathy healing sessions or get support to challenge the blocks stopping you from reaching for the stars……..

don’t let labels define you
stop living in the past and heal in the present

Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
 Authored  Achieving your Goals  31 Day Program, Sleep Sweet Sleep, Kid’s Peace Bus Calendar of Values  Educational Program & InTouch with Your Values Self-Actualization Program.Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Labyrinths of Victoria since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Grassroots Calendar Founder, Vice-Chair of World Children’s Summit on Peace & Nature in 2015

Have you considered where you would like to be in your relationship in 2016? or find one?

Valentines Day

Saint Valentine has come to be known as the patron saint of lovers

Valentine, who was executed in the 3rd century for performing Christian marriages,  has prompted feasts to celebrate love and happiness

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner!  It’s Sunday, Feb 14th, 2016!

Have you been Looking for ‘love’ in all the wrong places?  One of our primal instincts is to be in relationship.  Instinctive knowledge that sharing our experiences with another being that we consider our perfect mate drives us!

Have you considered where you would like to be in your relationship in 2016?  Getting back to consciously creating your loving experiences begins with consideration of what you desire.  Once you create an image of what you wish for pay attention to manifesting it.

Follow natures rhythms for manifesting your desires for 2016.  Nature flora and fauna have already harvested their  seeds for 2016 and now well into their rejuvenation cycle preparing for new growth next year!  Co-create with nature by following this powerful cycle.  Start by reflecting on your love dream first.  Write it out and talk it out loud.  Begin to make it real by taking it out of your head and into reality.

Here are some opportunities for connecting and coming together in  new and unique ways for making relationships adventures that you can export and support finding new love connections.




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Wedding Labyrinth – see more 

Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder – 2014 & 2015

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Finding Love, Being in Love & Remembering your love………

Love Questions:

  • Does love just happen? (No, sex just happens!)
  • Does that loving feeling last forever? (No, when the physical chemical wears off the relationships becomes a struggle.)
  • Do you fall out of love with yourself  when you love someone else? (When you let anything go without addressing it, yes you are no longer loving yourself)
  • Who do you fall out of love with first, yourself or your mate? 
Heart  Shaped Ceremonial Pathway

Heart Shaped Ceremonial Pathway



  A new way of looking at finding, being and staying in love!


Love is fresh, never old! 

First lets look at what makes love old when:  

  • looking for it,
  • being in it
  • or trying to remember it?  

If your answer was unmet needs your right!

Surprisingly our first step for finding love is hunting for it.  It’s easy to hunt and be hunted.  We are longing to feel connected, loved and chemically high!

Typically our second step is to conform ourselves to fit the model we think we should be.

Or, we demand our love interest conform to be who we want them to be!

Putting them or ourselves first turns today’s dream into tomorrow’s nightmare! 


 Let’s start over!  Together lets take a look at your definition of love and find out if it is working for you, but first lets talk about why.  Whether you are looking for a short-term fix or long-term relationship wouldn’t you want to experience the best of you versus the worst?  To feel confident, beautiful and fulfilled replacing hurt, resentful and frustrated would be the ultimate experience in love’s connection.  How can you achieve this?  By making love in your life your priority.  Considering it, defining it and preparing for it.  The definition you have for love is different than anyone else on the planet.  Yes, even your lover!

  • If you know your love map you will choose better lovers.
  • If you know your love map your lover has a better chance of being in connection and not having to be right or wrong!  
  •  If you are in a right and wrong relationship and have forgotten the ‘er’ at the end of love stopping to define your love map will refresh your memory.

  Love is a philosophy.  Love is life.  Love is a career.

Love is the field when the head, heart and body is in sync.  

Are you focusing as much of your attention to your love as your own career? If not, why not? 

Connect to find out how you too can deepen your connection to find, be and stay in love.  Personal programs include creating your love map, defining love in your life, creating the space for love, attracting love to you and how to talk ‘love’.  

 Connect and ask about: 

  • Creating a love map (yes works for singles & couples)
  • Home assessment
  • Movements, mental & emotional aspects for releasing blocks to love
  • Love Conversations
  • Getting Married
  • Ceremonies
(in person, by telephone & by conference call)

  Love related workshops

Wedding Labyrinth

Wedding Labyrinth


 Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement  since 2000
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InTouch Talk App ~ In Testing stages ~ Launching this month!

InTouch Talk App

Intouch Talk encourages understanding and connection in relationships.  Using easy tools in one’s practice can focus one’s attention turning experience of “no choice” into having “choice.” 

InTouch Talk focuses on “universal values” and developing one’s inner vocabulary of “value needs” and felt sense “feelings.” The next step is practice.  Combining the two,  learning and practice, opens ones conscious awareness and transitions ones from unconscious habitual behavior into one of conscious awareness.  At this point of conscious awareness one is more willing to exercise self-empathy and empathy for others.  It is this heart-felt connection that increases ethical behavior and is the point of caring that creates change.  “This is “green behavior.”

Start today!  Change your inner talk to increase opportunities to be seen, heard and to matter.  Begin enjoying your relationships and quality of what is around you!  

App features:

  • Empathy – Tips for learning & practice
  • Dialogue – Easy to follow steps 
  • Pairing Feelings & Needs – Combining possible feelings and needs for support and ease
  • Checking In – Steps for centering turning habitual behavior consciousness into conscious awareness
  • Not a Feeling – Easy check for translation evaluation into feelings and needs
  • News – Stay connected for news, tips and events
  • Calendar – 52 Week Value Practice & Learning
  • Values – organized into life areas 
  • Talk – Easy connect for those time you need support, coaching. learning 
  • Feelings – list for increasing vocabulary
  • Needs – cards that include reflection, definition and combines feelings for met and unmet needs 
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Beloved Relationship “Tips”

Many of us have not been heard or recognized in a way that we have felt our personal choices and preferences mattered.  Therefore we will need patience and empathy with ourselves and each other.   Renee Lindstrom 
This week begin to hold yourself  in the way you long to be held.  Begin to experience what you ‘do’ want.   Imagine the qualities of recognition, appreciation, respect, mutual giving & receiving.   Take time each day to pause and reflect upon the qualities you most seek in that moment.