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Fire & Water Somatic Goal: Example Daily Action 1/31

Fire & Water Somatic Goal Action on 1st Day

There are 31 daily actions to participate, and explore in this integrative experience of goal setting. These goals are different than the typical pressurized canned model of making goal statements designed to push through fears to take action on outside strategies to achieve an outcome. This goal pattern has a focus on changing behaviour from the inside out, and not the outside in. The inside focus first is aligned with core values and has an essence in expanded learning and connection to conscious awareness, while the other has a focus on outside strategies to achieve influence. The focus on somatic goal setting is active mindfulness that expands the interconnectedness to spontaneous reactions to environmental stimuli at the level of the five senses, while the focus on outside strategies is a mental focus that has been the existing patterning in social conditioning that eliminated the somatic learning patterns of early learning. It combines contemplation first to identify the value needs (intention) as the core influence. The process creates a new pattern for learning behaviour that increases self-actualization with a change in process inner behaviour with patterns connecting the meanings of the words inspiring reactions, responses and motivation. Its focus is from the inside, with growing confidence based on increasing personal worth and self-value instead of outside strategies for personal gain with a false bravado. Somatic goals can inspire an increase in self-value that leads to a felt expression of abundance that is embodied, while the old pattern of goals develops a type of confidence that has a limited viewpoint and is dependent on strategies to generate confidence. This limited viewpoint is usually on wealth and fame, which are only two life areas. One embodies function, and the other fragments it.ย ย 

Somatic Goal Setting Daily Action Example

Example of a doable daily action for integrating balance through inner and outer actions in the environment using intention that includes a focus on defining core values and becoming comfortable with feelings.

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Fundraiser for building a Culture of Values through educational components and integrating them into educational institutions and organizations.

Remember, a Culture of Values from this perspective is not a religion. It is a model of integrative learning to enhance organized learning in institutions, organizations, parenting and childcare. It is not exclusive to one demographic. Rather is designed for all functioning people of all ages.

This first workshop for the Inside Awareness Center for Somatic Learning will be a fundraiser for building the Culture of Values educational programming to bring focus to the needs for maintaining the early learning patterns and partnering them with the current system that is oriented from the perspectives of adults contained within an institutionalized system. These early learning patterns here are not the typical strategies from an adult perspective of coming up with strategies to implement into a system. It is the actual patterns of integration for developing the inner processing capabilities for a child to develop into a healthy functioning adult in society. Education currently has a focus on memorization, solving puzzles with strategies and debate conversation entrainment. These educational programs will introduce the needs of the students who have retained their dominant sensory input as a form of viewing and processing incoming worldly information, and will strive to balance out those who are dominant analytical thinkers. These learning patterns will focus on developing a healthy inner and outer understanding of behavioural relationships between the elusive inner body responses in functional responses to any stimuli. This will be through transparent guided patterns designed in the same model of early learning in babies who have no input from adults intellectually in learning how to roll over, sit, stand, walk and talk. These abilities are inherent and not transmitted through an adult’s outside influence. These programs will integrate seamlessly into existing programs designed to increase recognition of inner responses for the ability to self-monitor and process reactions. This model has been initiated by a somatic empath who has recognized a gap in social conditioning while in a journey of self-discovery to find clarity and learn how to navigate in a world that has been educated to project outward from a dominant thinking behaviour, instead of having increased clarity and understanding of their inner process for creating healthy habits for good relationships and lifestyles later on. The intent for the educational patterns will be to create a healthier relationship and lifestyles that have less conflict and increased shared values.

Participation & Contribution

Renee Lindstrom, Founder of Inside Awareness Center for Integrative Somatic Learning, is seeking business partners, sponsors and those interested in supporting a model of education that will redefine behaviour through clarity, understanding that retraining the brain along with the subtle inner body responses that are one. At some point in history, the body systems became isolated and separated in people’s minds. The compartmentalization has fractured full function and understanding of the inter-relationships between felt senses, physical transitions, emotional responses, and finally the inner process for creating thoughts. For those who would be inspired to join this project, please express your interest and how or what you would like to contribute. Email is the best form of connection due to personal obligations to long periods of time with the phone turned off.

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Let’s build a Culture of Values Educational system together

Link will go to Conscious Learning for Health. Due to Renee’s name not being available she has spelled it Reene.

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*Please note that there will be a component of training the trainers and mentorship available in the mix later on that you may have interest in if you’re an existing practitioner. This could be your entry point into this amazing project. If you’re a seasoned veteran, you may be valued as an advisor if you can connect to the potential through your experience. At this point, the essence of the material is at a stage of not be reinvented by new strategies that haven’t been through the apprenticeship of application.

Relationships Matter: ‘Couples Intimacy ‘


“If there are problems in the bedroom, there’s conflict!”

“If there are problems in the relationship there are problems in the bedroom!”

These are two comments I made at our 3rd Removing Obstacles to Love workshop last night! ย Our conversation was focused on the aspects of our primary relationships. ย Breaking it down into bite sized pieces, so to speak, ย there are four areas of focus in our primary relationships that affect each other. ย They are:

  1. Family/Community/Social Network
  2. Household Health/Financial
  3. Relationship (Interaction & Behavior)
  4. Intimacy

Our consideration was on the dynamics of unresolved issues and ย how some people can compartmentalized their relationship issues and still be intimate while others need to have resolution on outstanding issues to have their needs for safety met to be vulnerable enough for intimacy!

Where are you in this topic? ย Do you need the resolution of your unresolved issues with your partner to be as intimate as you like? ย 

In this scenario, I suggested that if couples are open and honest with each other and they speak up about what is important to them in the moment that this present connection could lead them to intimacy. ย Why? ย It is the connection that is important, not the issues. ย Any unresolved issues is about not be seen, not being heard and not being valued! ย My recommendations are to slow down and listen. ย Learn to listen to your partners soul and your own!


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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Jaw Release Program since 2007, Authored ย Achieving your Goals ย 31 Day Program, Sleep Sweet Sleep, Kidโ€™s Peace Bus Calendar of Values ย Educational Program & InTouch with Your Values Self-Actualization Program. ย Feldenkraisยฎ Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement ย since 2000, Labyrinths of Victoria since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Grassroots Calendar Founder, Vice-Chair of World Children

‘Imagining in your relationship’

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When you have decided upon the type of relationship you would like to enjoy, create a reflection of this in your relationship corner. ย Remember to use groupings of two.

Remember that when you stop blaming outside influences for your lack of connecting to the perfect relationship situation, this is when you are seriously ready to do the work to meet your hearts desire. ย The work begins by being clear and committed to the qualities you are seeking in a partner. ย Once you determineย these qualities the next question is, “Do you have these qualities yourself.”

REMOVING OBSTACLES TOย LOVE

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkraisยฎ Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement ย since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder โ€“ 2014 & 2015

 

Personal Message in my in box this morning. I expect they aren’t aware of my focus in my community!

Hello beautiful, i just came across your profile here. I would like to be friends with you. I want you to know that you are a very beautiful and attractive woman and you are a woman with a difference, what i see in you i have never seen in any other woman. Your beauty is exceptional. And your beauty is one in a million in this world. I will be so honored to be your friend sweetheart. You are the best beauty of your kind. Looking forward to read from you soon and get to know you better. Warm hugs and kisses to you.

This message was waiting for me this morning from my Google plus account. ย In my Removing Obstacles to Love Workshop this week a participant spoke about a scam she encountered and how it affected her. ย We used this scenario in a role play to connect to the needs that where not met.

I mentioned to the group afterwards how someone could take the online photo’s ย  and do a Google search to find out if they had been used in other profiles.


 

Click on the picture ย to enlarge it and then right-click twice on your mouse in rapid succession. ย Options will come up that will include a search for similar photo’s. ย Click that option and you may be surprised to find the same picture several times with different profile names.

I have in the past reported these to Google plus, however, they have now made it harder to report scammers. ย They want the person whose picture that is being used to report it now. ย This gives the scammers an edge. ย Now I simply block these accounts.

The above message came from aย John Miguel. I would ask my community members to watch for this account to pop in their networks as their goal is ย to become friends and then go through your friends searching for targets.


Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkraisยฎ Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement ย since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder โ€“ 2014 & 201

 

Sweetly surprised by receiving my own valentines flowers!

So focused on sharing valentines day ideas these past few weeks I didn’t think about my own special day! ย When the door bell rang and this beautiful flower arrangement was waiting, I was happily surprised.DSC_0289ย  The feelings it stimulated so sweet it is hard to express with words! ย Of course the first thing that came to mind was to consider the secret language of the flowers. I knew that roses meant love. ย However, ย what was the significance of pink roses? ย Checking, I discover it is desire, passion, joy of life, youth, energy. ย  What a nice expression. ย I am in need of enjoying these qualities! ย Explore how to ย find out more about the secret language of your flowers.

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,

Feldenkraisยฎ Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement ย since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder โ€“ 2014 & 2015

 

Single & it’s Valentines

single and strongSo your single and it’s Valentines, the 2nd highest day of the year on record for the most wedding proposals.

Feeling sad, glad or mad? Are your needs for companionship, romance, warm-heartedness and to be cherished? ย What will you do about it? ย Act all depressed about it and mope the day away or find your inner strong-self and get love active!

Have fun and plan your valentine’s day to learnย how you would like to be treated by your future love interest.

  1. ย carnation-20flower-20clip-20art-carnation-flower-clip-artStart with flowers. ย Do you know about the secret language of flowers? ย In Victorian times flowers were famously used to set the tone in novels and set up qualities in gardens and homes. ย  Did you know the symbology of Arbutus is “you’re the only one I love?” ย See more on plant symbolism. ย ,ย ย A Victorian Flower Dictionary: The Language of Flowers Companion.
  2. Next find the perfect card (or make one). ย Forget e-cards! ย Spend time browsing through cards at a local shop or spend time ย creating the perfect love affirmation for yourself! ย If you want to be loved in any particular way, it begins with you loving yourself in that particular way and creating your own love expectations.
  3. Investigate local activities in your community! ย Don’t be shy, be bold and take a friend to check it out for your romance meter. Do you have one? If you don’t know what love ย qualities you like to experience, you can’t expect someone to pop up and create if for you! If you want romance, learn romance!
  4. Investigate your local area and rate restaurants, parks, sites, pubs and activities so that you have resources to draw upon when the time is right. ย Rather that saying, “I don’t know!”, you will know exactly the experience you want to create with a potential valentine date!
  5. Explore music, wine, drinks, food and desserts and know which ones express themselves romantically. ย Yes meals do set up the experience. ย Be prepared with what food appeal to you romantically so you can drop hints at the right time! ย Meanwhile have fun finding you your love muse!

In Victorian times society’s model had events that put ย boys and girls together for finding the best suitors. ย Friendships, romance and relationships were societies central focus and through this single focus then things of importance relevant to family, business and government would be a part of the dialogue.

Today the pattern has shifted and the center of our focus is not on families, relationships and romance. ย It ย is focused on education, ย business and politics. ย A model that centers on learning personal relationships is missing and forgotten! ย We are ignorant to our romantic and relationships needs that create healthy and interdependent partnerships. ย Let’s change that! ย Stop being downhearted about being single and take advantage of this time. ย Create your own centered learning focus about what is meaningful to you. ย After-all how can you teach your partner what you don’t know?


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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkraisยฎ Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement ย since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder โ€“ 2014 & 2015

‘Empowered Relationships’

Happy_Couple[1]Empowered relationships begin with one’s personal deepened connection to their own personal values. ย Knowing our values and trusting them to guide us gives us the strength and willpower to be true to ourselves! ย This foundation is key for an interdependent relationship that is life enriching for both our partners and ourselves!


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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP,
Feldenkraisยฎ Practitioner since 2007, Value-Based Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement ย since 2000, Founder of Greater Victoria Peace & Intercultural Celebrations since 2010 & Greater Victoria Labyrinths since 2012, #yyj Peace Week Calendar Founder โ€“ 2014 & 2015