#9 Listen to your intuition
Meet new prospects in public in an easy, fun and lighthearted location. (Don’t stay on-line – take it public) Listen to your ‘first impression.’ What is your gut telling you? Can you be authentic and stay integral to what matters to you? Are you comfortable? Are they comfortable? Can you be yourself? Your goal is to find out if they are looking for a successful relationship or the novelty of attraction. A successful relationship is life enriching and the novelty of attraction becomes life draining and can become a fatal attraction.
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Be objective. Notice the warning signs and if you stay centered or if your trying too hard and giving too much. Go beyond the physical attraction. If conversation is a struggle now it will always be a struggle. Notice the rewards in connecting. Yes conversation is rewarding.
“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
Vincent Van Gogh
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Tip of the day: Organize yourself to meet a handful of potential dates. Keep it light and easy. Enjoy meeting and connecting to find out more about yourself and them. Meeting someone is not a commitment to date. Meeting someone is not a commitment for sex. Stand out! Give them an experience where they want to find out more!
Tip for the day: Be committed to getting to know many friends. Use this time to practice fun and enjoy the getting to know you process before getting serious.
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Tip of the day: A relationship is in real-time. Once love is found it only lasts if the interactions and shared experiences are compatible.
Tip of the day: Be honest with yourself and admit that you are looking for love. Let you family, friends and co-workers know. If you are looking for a mate tackle it in the same way you would look for a new job. If you are looking to improve your love experience, tackle it in the same way that you pursued important milestones!
Tip for today: Begin with creating a space to represent the qualities of love that you are looking for in a new or old relationship. In a space that is completely yours begin creating an altar for romance and love. If you are looking for romance question yourself on what objects mean this to you? Candles? Roses? Remember when you put object like candles or roses out do it pairs.
