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The Month of Romance and Love: #10 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 10, 2015 | 1 comment

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#10 Real-Time Face-time

Filling your date nights and getting out yet? In real-time you can experience how your date influences you and if they are interesting. Online, not so much! Online you may be distracted from your loneliness yet it doesn’t do much for the flirty side of romance. Online profiles are misleading and untrustworthy and lead straight to the end game. If you lack time to get out to meet and greet until something clicks and are seriously looking get a matchmaker or go to specific singles events!

Today’s tip: Use the 80/20 Rule

Spend 80 to 100 percent engaging in real-time face-time and 20 to 0 percent online. If you are looking for love, romance and nuances that make relationships sparkle online simply isn’t reflective of this experience. However, if you are lonely, lazy, love anxiety and sometimes deceit, it may meet your needs!

“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.”
The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen

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The Month of Romance and Love: #9 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 9, 2015 | Leave a comment

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#9 Listen to your intuition

Meet new prospects in public in an easy, fun and lighthearted location. (Don’t stay online – take it public) Listen to your ‘first impression.’ What is your gut telling you? Can you be authentic and stay integral to what matters to you? Are you comfortable? Are they comfortable? Can you be yourself? Your goal is to find out if they are looking for a successful relationship or the novelty of attraction. A successful relationship is life-enriching and the novelty of attraction becomes life-draining and can become a fatal attraction.

Tip of the Day:

Be objective. Notice the warning signs and if you stay centred or if you’re trying too hard and giving too much. Go beyond the physical attraction. If conversation is a struggle now it will always be a struggle. Notice the rewards in connecting. Yes, conversation is rewarding.

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”
Vincent Van Gogh

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The Month of Romance and Love: #7 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 7, 2015 | Leave a comment

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#7 Intimacy & Vulnerability

Vulnerability comes from trust. Trust grows from friendship. Are you seeking gratification or longing for bliss? if you choose bliss, practice friendship. Enjoy making friends and the joys of bliss from exploring your shared values and sharing experiences.

Love Day 7 Tip for the day: Be committed to getting to know many friends. Use this time to practice fun and enjoy the getting-to-know-you process before getting serious.

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”

James Baldwin

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The Month of Romance and Love: #6 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 6, 2015 | Leave a comment

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#6 How you love is how you are loved

If you love through sex, you will be loved only for sex. If you love money, you will only be loved forever by how long you have value to the financier. If you love to be taken care of, you are loved until the novelty of loving you wears off! However, if you are clear on your needs in a relationship and your love is expansive, you will receive back deeper everlasting love.

Tip of the Day:

Write down 5 things that you love and are loved in return for. For example: You are caring, therefore cared for.

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.” Vincent Van Gogh

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The Month of Romance and Love: #5 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 5, 2015 | 1 comment

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#5 Relationships are on the physical plain

Relationships are the manifestation of your hopes, dreams and intentions. The conscious or unconscious seeds sown will result in capturing a love connection. However, it is a balance of your whole self that will determine the state of your experience in your relationships.

Love Day 5 Tip of the day: A relationship is in real-time. Once love is found it only lasts if the interactions and shared experiences are compatible.

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”

Lucille Ball

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The Month of Romance and Love: #4 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 3, 2015 | 1 comment

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#4 Love is a full-time job!

Finding a loving relationship is a full-time occupation. A loving mate is our most important objective. It is a goal we enter life with. The love experience of our parents shapes us. It’s where we learn love either fills us with hope or hopelessness. It is on our minds and what motivates us!

Tip of the day: Be honest with yourself and admit that you are looking for love. Let your family, friends and co-workers know. If you are looking for a mate tackle it in the same way you would look for a new job. If you are looking to improve your love experience, tackle it in the same way that you pursued important milestones!

“The art of love is largely the art of persistence.”

Albert Ellis

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The Month of Romance and Love: #3 of 14 Tips for finding better love

Posted on February 2, 2015 | 1 comment

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#3 Romance? Play? Adventure? Affection? Intimacy?

It’s all about the love! Start pursuing love creativity and playfully. Tap into qualities of what you love by exploring objects, art and nature to represent the essence of the value-needs you discovered in Tip #1. The aim is to represent your inner longings creatively in your personal space which is a physical manifestation of your intention.

Tip for today: Begin with creating a space to represent the qualities of love that you are looking for in a new or old relationship. In a space that is completely yours begin creating an altar for romance and love. If you are looking for romance question yourself on what objects mean this to you? Candles? Roses? Remember when you put objects like candles or roses out do it in pairs.