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The Month of Romance and Love: #7 of 14 Tips for finding better love  

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#7  Intimacy & Vulnerability

Vulnerability comes from trust.  Trust grows from friendship.  Are you seeking gratification or longing for bliss?  if you choose bliss, practice friendship.  Enjoy making friends and the joys of bliss from exploring your shared values and sharing experiences.

Love Day 7Tip for the day:  Be committed to getting to know many friends.  Use this time to practice fun and enjoy the getting-to-know-you process before getting serious.

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”

James Baldwin

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The Month of Romance and Love: #6 of 14 Tips for finding better love  

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#6  How you love is how you are loved

If you love through sex, you will be loved only for sex.  If you love money, you will only be loved forever by how long you have value to the financier.  If you love to be taken care of, you are loved until the novelty of loving you wears off!  However, if you are clear on your needs in a relationship and your love is expansive, you will receive back deeper everlasting love.

Love Day 6Tip of the Day:

Write down 5 things that you love and are loved in return for.  For example:  You are caring, therefore cared for.

 “Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.”    Vincent Van Gogh


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The Month of Romance and Love: #5 of 14 Tips for finding better love  

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

 Relationships are on the physical plain

Relationships are the manifestation of your hopes, dreams and intentions.  The conscious or unconscious seeds sown will result in capturing a love connection. However, it is a balance of your whole self that will determine the state of your experience in your relationships.

Love Day 5Tip of the day:  A relationship is in real-time. Once love is found it only lasts if the interactions and shared experiences are compatible.

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.”   

Lucille Ball

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The Month of Romance and Love: #4 of 14 Tips for finding better love  

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#4  Love is a full-time job!

Finding a loving relationship is a full-time occupation.  A loving mate is our most important objective.  It is a goal we enter life with.  The love experience of our parents shapes us.  It’s where we learn love either fills us with hope or hopelessness.  It is on our minds and what motivates us!

Love Day 4Tip of the day:  Be honest with yourself and admit that you are looking for love.  Let your family, friends and co-workers know.  If you are looking for a mate tackle it in the same way you would look for a new job.  If you are looking to improve your love experience, tackle it in the same way that you pursued important milestones!

“The art of love is largely the art of persistence.” 

Albert Ellis

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The Month of Romance and Love: #3 of 14 Tips for finding better love  

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness

#3  Romance? Play? Adventure? Affection? Intimacy?

It’s all about the love! Start pursuing love creativity and playfully. Tap into qualities of what you love by exploring objects, art and nature to represent the essence of the value-needs you discovered in Tip . The aim is to represent your inner longings creatively in your personal space which is a physical manifestation of your intention.

Love Day threeTip for today:  Begin with creating a space to represent the qualities of love that you are looking for in a new or old relationship.  In a space that is completely yours begin creating an altar for romance and love.  If you are looking for romance question yourself on what objects mean this to you?  Candles? Roses?  Remember when you put objects like candles or roses out do it in pairs.

“We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


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The Month of Romance and Love: #2 of 14 Tips for finding better love  

by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness, 

  One plus one equals two

If your inner landscape yearns for love, have you decorated your outer landscape for romance?

Does your personal space display your relationship’s intentions?

Love Day twoTip for today:  Notice your outer landscape.  Walk with fresh eyes around your home and notice what dominates the story.  Kids? Work? School? Hobbies? T.V.?   If you want more,  what can you remove to make more space?

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“Love does not dominate; it cultivates.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


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Great day for prioritizing ‘love’

celebrate badge coloredThe emphasis for ‘love’ has started!  The wheel of marketing has rolled into February’s celebration focus of ‘love.’  Everyone can admit this focus is bringing us into acute awareness  of our unique experience of love!  I say, “Use this energy and prioritize your need for ‘love.’  Why?

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  • If you are single and looking for love it is your primary focus, regardless of your day activities!
  • If you are married your thoughts throughout the day include whatever your experience is with your partner!  If you have feelings that are dissatisfied you wear this tension in the same way as if your feelings are those of being satisfied in your relationship.

Start today as the calendar marches into February!  Take a few minutes and consider what is important to you in “love.’  Check out our definition of love first and consider how these needs could be met in you most important relationship of your life.

Looking for Love:

  • Start by reflecting upon what is important to you in a partner.
  • Wake up to what your needs are in a partnership.

Already found you love and looking for improving your experience:

  • Start by reflecting upon what is important to you as a partner. (Try and stay out of the comparing what is happening in your relationships and check in to define your needs)
  • Wake up to what your needs are in a partnership.

*Please know that this is recommended for both great and not so great relationship experiences.  It increases your awareness of the good and bad times consciously.


Love Program starting Feb 1st – 14 Days of Love Tips – follow @InsideAwareness

Day one:- Tip # 1 


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