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How can one balance aspects of self?

Medicine wheel2Recently I enjoyed viewing a “Coles Notes” explanation of the a Medicine Wheel from a fellow Canadian in Alberta.  This Elder was connecting with a troubled youth through the act of  walking.  There was not a direct focus on any issues.  I observed through their discussion that the Elder was very aware of this youth and their needs through their behavior and unspoken expression.  Rather than being direct and  telling the youth anything, it was through guidance and modelling. The Elder began sharing the concept of  the Medicine Wheel and encouraged the youth  to walk, enter and stop in the center.  The  explanation of the Medicine Wheel was subtle and included the four directions, north, south, east and west.  There was also mention of the balance of the four aspects of self for connecting to ones center.  

Viewing this was a revelation and it was exciting to recognize the similarities to the core principles in the integrative centering and wellness tools offered in the getting InTouch programs at Inside.  These include levels of experiencing integration from the outside in.  These include

  • guidance versus telling,
  • mentoring versus teaching,
  • modeling versus telling and not walking it oneself in reality,
  • experiencing patterns versus fixing it.  

The wellness tools are for creating an open learning mindfulness versus a closed mind that knows everything.  The difference:

Becoming comfortable within oneself leads to acceptance and expansion beyond experiences into deeper relationships.  

Staying in the discomfort of always knowing the answer, in fear of feeling, leads to a *struggle.  Being right creates disconnection from all things. 

*The struggle is keeping the walls of power up that come from being right.

One way to experience balancing aspects of self with Inside is through sharing a Labyrinth Walk.  If you compare the following labyrinth design with the Medicine Wheel above you will see the similarities.  Listening to the Elder share his Medicine Wheel with the youth I was able to hear very similar guidance of sharing a labyrinth walk with others.  I was thrilled to experience the connectedness between these ancient patterns!

Chartres 11 Circuit Labyrinth

Chartres 11 Circuit Labyrinth

 

Other ways to experience balancing aspects of  self with Inside tools and techniques:

Subtle Inner Connecting

  • Awareness through Movement©
  • Conscious Movement
  • Sharing the Labyrinth (similarities  to a Medicine Wheel)
  • Nature Walking
  • Meditation/Contemplation 

Deepening Inner Connections

  • Guidance with  the Spoken Word
  • Functional Integration©

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©by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP, May, 2014
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000

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Your Center Experience – Unbalanced

Infinity Flower ~ Personal Balance, Moment by Moment

Balance - 4 Steps out

Aspects of self out of balance creates Half Sided View

  • Have you ever heard belief statements from others only to witness that they are not practicing what they teach?
  • Have you noticed yourself making a statement based upon your viewpoint only to experience doing exactly the opposite?

If your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual  experiences are out of balance you may not be able to live them.  You may at those times then experience yourself as being dishonest or out of integrity.  It certainly will be others experience when with you.

In balance or our of balance, you can learn the tools to be aware of it and to move yourself towards balance!

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©by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP, May, 2014
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000

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Infinity Flower ~ Personal Balance, Moment by Moment

Infinity Flower

  •  Relationships have more ease and connection when aspects of self are balanced.
  • Understanding others has more ease with deepened understanding and experience of ones own aspects of self.

Step Two

  • Overlay these individual areas to create your flower
  • Consider that inner balance includes each area coming together into one flower

Step Three

Now imagine a time when or where you experience a moment of complete balance.  A moment when everything was lined up.  A moment you experienced being in the moment with no thought, no need, no longing and without seeking anything.  A moment of lightness with space yet full of life.   If you have not experienced a moment like this, imagine experiencing it,  letting it be peaceful.

 Step Four

Consider what it would be like to have a connection with someone close to you while in this space of peacefulness.  How different would this experience be from one that your systems are out of balance?

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©InsideAwareness – by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP, May, 2014
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000

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Four Aspects of Self

 Transition into balance is easier if there is conscious awareness of what aspect of self is out of balance.

  • This diagram shows four aspects of self  requiring balance for a better connections with others.   They are:

Balance P

Have you explored how your relationships may be affected when one or more of these area’s are not in balance?

For example:  if you are hungry are you as patient as you could be with others, especially those close to you?

Step One

Consider what it means to have  balance in each one of these areas individually:

  • Physical Body

Balance - Physical

  • Mental

Balance - Mental

  • Emotional

Balance - Emotional

  • Spirit/Soul

Balance - Spirit

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©by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP, May, 2014
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000

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This weeks Personal Value Consideration

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Renee Lindstrom, GCFP
Feldenkrais® Practitioner since 2007, Communication & Empathy Coach since 2004, Art of Placement since 2000

Truly the Beauty Path!

Walking of Blossom, World Labyrinth Day ~ Victoria

Walking of Blossoms, World Labyrinth Day ~ Victoria

May 3, ’14 was World Labyrinth Day and the focus was, “We walk as One.”  The meet up in Victoria was at the Park Labyrinth in James Bay.  Beautiful at this time year with the added and unexpected bonus of Japanese Blossoms.  These trees had been a gift to Victoria from Japan.  This year they are creating a canape over the the pathway leading to the labyrinth and over part of the labyrinth itself.

Walking up to the labyrinth entrance under this canopy the sensation was uplifting with joy and light-heartedness.  Entering the labyrinth and walking to the center there was pleasure at noticing the flowers in the grass.  The pathway was filled with tiny springtime flowers.  Coming around a corner, fresh blossoms from the Japanese Cherry’s laid in wait and suddenly a canopy of blossoms overhead.

Truly one of the most beautiful labyrinth walks this author has encountered. Natural and unexpected.  This labyrinth is surrounded by old growth trees that help to circle it and the feelings of love and playfulness prevailed.  Walking for World Peace on this day carried a different emotion and spirit than anticipated and really isn’t it light-heartedness and playfulness that is going to bring it on?

 

Examples of Yin/Yang Roles

Yin/Yang Positions in Relationships
Education
  • Teacher is the speaker  – yang
  • Student is the listener – yin
Parenting
  • Parent – yang
  • Child – yin
Work
  • Employer – yang
  • Employee – yin
Sports
  • Coach – yang
  • Athlete – yin
Siblings 

  • By dominate personality

Love/Intimacy

  • By dominate personality