by Renee Lindstrom, GCFP @ Inside Awareness
#10 Real-Time Face-time
Filling your date nights and getting out yet? In real-time you can experience how your date influences you and if they are interesting. Online, not so much! Online you may be distracted from your loneliness yet it doesn’t do much for the flirty side of romance. Online profiles are misleading and untrustworthy and lead straight to the end game. If you lack time to get out to meet and greet until something clicks and are seriously looking get a matchmaker or go to specific singles events!
Today’s tip: Use the 80/20 Rule
Spend 80 to 100 percent engaging in real-time face-time and 20 to 0 percent online. If you are looking for love, romance and nuances that make relationships sparkle online simply isn’t reflective of this experience. However, if you are lonely, lazy, love anxiety and sometimes deceit, it may meet your needs!
“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.”
The Truth About Forever by Sarah Dessen
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Tip of the day: A relationship is in real-time. Once love is found it only lasts if the interactions and shared experiences are compatible.
Tip for today: Begin with creating a space to represent the qualities of love that you are looking for in a new or old relationship. In a space that is completely yours begin creating an altar for romance and love. If you are looking for romance question yourself on what objects mean this to you? Candles? Roses? Remember when you put objects like candles or roses out do it in pairs.
Tip for today: Notice your outer landscape. Walk with fresh eyes around your home and notice what dominates the story. Kids? Work? School? Hobbies? T.V.? If you want more, what can you remove to make more space?
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