In private sessions with clients there is less distraction and the benefit can be deepened awareness of their own behavior. This includes clarity of how reactions are dependent on both thinking and locked in movement patterns. The two are locked into behavior!
Clients searching for a change in their relationships will enjoy the simple movement techniques I introduce to increase their focus. Some will begin to alternate between talking and movement sessions. Both these types of sessions are designed to increase the success in their progress and are compatible.
Clients who come for improving their movement and reducing pain will find themselves integrating their emotional reactions that are keeping them in their pain and strain.
Both types of clients discover physical movement and emotional reactions are married together in their reactions. They come to know the value in learning their automatic habits. If someone is able to observe their habits then there will be change.
One example is a client who discovered one of the largest muscles in their body and that they had not been using them. They didn’t even know at first how to engage it! This client originally came to improve their relationship connections. To relieve their tension and increase their breathing patterns I introduced small movements for them to experience. Afterwards our sessions began to alternate between the two types of sessions, movement awareness and talking awareness.
They discovered a large muscle that was dormant and not being used. They realized the strain that this put on their whole body in the effort to move in any activity. They also realized they did not even know how to activate this muscle. There was no connection to the brain signals.
Then came the awareness of tension being held in another set of muscles. The control that went into holding these muscles stopped any ability to engage these new ones! The control of this other set of muscles was directly related to emotional behavior! The balance then came from intellectually knowing one is safe and supported to begin to release control.
I love my work! When clients can experience their journey through learning techniques their journey is more concise and clear. There is beauty in waking up the parts that have no brain awareness! When this client stopped using these big muscles the brain lost the memory of it. Therefore there is a disconnection until they relearn they have these muscles and how to use it. If they are not aware that they have stopped using it, how will they even know about it?
This is something that cannot be learned through outside sources and activities. It takes a control environment of focused somatic learning.
When the education stops change begin!
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Tagged Behavior Awareness, brain signals, Conscious Behavior Learning, getting InTouch, Health, Inside Awareness, Learning Techniques, mental-health, Movement, movement awareness, pain and strain, relationship connections, Relationships, Somatic Learning
Finishing up the second event in a 6 week workshop series with a focus upon movement awareness for decreasing fear and increasing balance, the participants themselves ask me, “Why haven’t we learned this before?” “Why hasn’t this been apart of our learning background?” I can only mention that it must not be in our awareness yet!
After only two classes participants are beginning to know themselves in a way that has never crossed their minds before. They have a greater awareness of their feet, legs, knees, pelvis, spine, ribs, arms, hands and head. They notice that they are very connected to their shoulders, neck, head and arms and not so much to anything else! They also have a growing recognition to how they may feel pressure in one foot and none in the other. Therefore the struggle for balance.
These classes are unlike a focus fitness class designed specifically to build muscle and or yoga for stretching. Building muscle and stretching are a benefit of the classes. The focus is upon understanding the movement and focused awareness of the movement itself. That is when change happens!
Anyone who has limited movement and breathing patterns would benefit from these classes. Anyone who is in pain or has fear of their own movement would benefit. Anyone afraid of falling and tensing up would benefit. Find out more! There are four classes left in this series that you can register for, pro-rated. Call 250-370-7300 to sign up or mark your calendars for the fall. A new class begins September 16th, 2013, more info at – link
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Tagged Balance, Breathing, breathing patterns, Falling, Fear, Fitness Class, Focusing, greater awareness, Inside Awareness, Monterey Recreation Centre, movement awareness, workshop series
Have I ever told you how much I enjoy myself! I have the best position in the world! I watch workshop members integrate information and see change in them in as little as two hours.
In two seemingly separate workshops yesterday the members heard me say, “If you don’t use it you lose it!” Both workshops are designed around personal exploration with the intention to increase the use of participants brains in a novel way. One through movement to increase balance and the other relationship behavior. We know our relationships are based upon behavior , yet when you consider movement, it too is a learned behavior!
The workshop members are looking for change and to improve their life abilities in some way. Those only looking for reassurance that they have the answers already move on quickly to the next novel workshop. Those who stay, do so as they are tired of seeking answers from external sources and are wanting sincere change. They are willing to go beyond thinking about it and finding easy answers. They are willing to explore and deepen their understand through practical experience. That’s when the magic happens and brains mapping increases. I see a shift in facial expressions, body posture and tone. This is when tiredness turns into engagement, fear turns into contentment, and lack of supporting oneself turns into personal power of supporting oneself.
I also enjoy the verbal feedback that comes from participants. One of our workshops from yesterday explored deepening patterns of listening. A practice of a simple pattern of steps was introduced with an explanation of how it was similar to a pattern used in other parts of our culture to increase safety. At the end of the night one participant shared they had just spent the past weekend in a loving kindness meditation. While listening to their teacher they had moments of joyful surprise when what they heard was similar to what they had been learning and practicing through our workshops together.
The difference for me is that our workshops are based upon the practical application: to act from conscious action in the moment you are living the experience. It is not a practice of faith, tradition or spirituality. It is not the dogma. It is a series of steps to recognize and change behavior. I believe it may support the art of living one’s faith! Perhaps it is the bridge to bring that loving kindness into a moment of action.
I know for myself that I can meditate until the cows come home and still my relationships interactions outside of the mediation space remain the same. The experience is not translating into real life action. Yet I notice that when I have the courage to listen first and then speak authentically and honestly, the same quality of experience rises up within as when I have been in long mediation!
Have I ever told you how much I enjoy this? When I imagine the Japanese Zen artist drawing from a state of mediation and holding the calligraphy pen to draw the circle of life or the dot of awakened state, I draw a comparison. I know the behavioral pattern awareness and integration process I share to be the pen. My opinion is that they are the tool to increase skill levels of behavioral action in the moment of living it.
Behavior is the art “man” has forgotten!
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Tagged Art, awareness, Behavior, Behavior is Mans Lost Art, Brain, brain mapping, getting InTouch, Health, Inside Awareness, mental-health, movement awareness, novel experiences, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Relationships, The Lost Art
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